Bah-freaking-humbug! Isn't it horrible? I am most definitely not in the Christmas spirit this year. It's weird, I want to be in the spirit, but I'm just not. I really know that I have so much to be grateful for. I have a good job and work with wonderful people. I have amazing friends. My family is awesome. My husband is my best friend. I have a roof over my head. And yet, I am in a funk. A baby funk. Instead of a monkey on my back I have a big giant BABY on my back. I know I am supposed to be patient. I try to have a positive attitude about it all. I know that nobody wants to hear a big whiner. But right now it seems that all the world is pregnant or has a baby. I keep telling myself that things happen for a reason and when this is all over I will know why I had to have this trial. But that doesn't always help in the here and now. I feel totally crazy because I want it so bad. It is biological I tell you! I am trying to have hope and be positive, relax and not obsess. All I have to say is that it's a good thing that last year I didn't know I would still be at square one a year later. Right now all I have is hope. That's it. Plain and simple. So there you have it. I have effectively vented. They don't call it a Pity Patty Party for nothing!
1 comment:
oh my gosh trish! you completely took the words right out of my mouth! i feel the same way that you about wanting a baby so bad. i found out a few months ago that my tubes are blocked and so we are in the adoption process. i know what you mean about everyone around is pregnant or has a baby. it is way way hard. i am so sorry you have to face this trial too. what is going on with you? you are right it all happens for a reason, but the waiting is the hardest. we really need to get together soon! so much to catch up on! i hope you have a merry christmas! love ya!!!
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